Sunday, September 25, 2011

Micheal Jackson and The Media

Micheal Jackson and The Media
“To you Michael is an icon, but to us he is family”, said Janet Jackson at the 2009 BET awards. Michael Jackson passed away June 25, 2009 from an overdose to the lethal ejection propofol, mostly used in surgery settings. But it could be said that Jackson died long before then, that his soul had been taken from him by; the media, close friends, and even his fans.
Now you can find yourself listening to Jackson’s greatest hits and remembering the times, literally. However it’s also easy to forget just what Michael Jackson meant to African Americans in music, to children growing up singing, and to people struggling all across the country.
Though it’s easily forgotten that Jackson was the first African American to have a video aired on MTV, it’s easy to forget that he’s in the genesis book of world records for being the most charitable artist, and that regardless of his fame he opened his home to kids to enjoy what he didn’t have as a child.
But why is it so hard to forget? Well the media made it hard, because all you saw was the bad; from calling him wacko-jacko to saying Jackson was even gay. You saw his skin changing, but were never told why it changed; only that Michael Jackson wanted to be white. You saw his nose changing, his body so frail and skinny, and him being portrayed as a monster in his molestation trials.
Allegations were made against Jackson, yet he was acquitted of all charges. Jackson faced serious allegations of child abuse; though Jackson always stated, he was innocent. A multimillion dollar settlement was reached in the first case in 1993, and Jackson was found not guilty in a trial which mocked the judicial system in 2005.
But in a way those trials seriously hurt Jackson, think about it. What if Michael really just wanted to give kids what he never had, what if he wanted his fans to see him at his BEST and when fans turned their backs, he lost what made him who he was… the beloved Michael who was a smooth criminal and left blood on any dance floor.
Many felt he had been convicted in the court of public opinion. In a 1995 interview, Jackson told ABC's Diane Sawyer, “It just isn't fair what they put me through. There isn't one piece of information that says that I did this -- nothing, nothing, nothing."
Is too much media coverage a problem? Well that’s a question most can answer themselves.
Michael grew up in a way many of us will never understand. A note to the media you can’t forget that the celebrities you are reporting on are still human and even though they say words don’t hurt, we all know they can. At some point too much media coverage on one individual or case can cause viewers to form certain opinions, you know like agenda setting.
To fans think about having your life full of cameras and you never get to find who you are because as a child you were denied the chance, and as an adult you have so many expectations to live up to; like always trying to the best, the greatest, the king.
To doctors who treat celebrities think about it like this; in a way you kind of have the power to save a life or end one. When will you stop giving celebrities medicine? When will you tell a celebrity NO, this will kill you. Is money really the deciding factor in who doctors save or who they watch vanish right before their eyes?
The world saw a memorial put on by AEG, the company sponsoring Michael’s concert tours. But is the world letting the king of pop rest in peace? There’s a difference between honoring a life of great legacy and high lightening what made him JACKO. And like Janet Jackson said, he’s a member of their family, he’s more than an icon; he’s the greatest entertainer to ever live, and may he rest in peace.

Life as a Model

 The life of a model… Since 2006, I have coined myself as America’s Next Top Model, because the dream of winning the hit reality show was first on my mind and for the last four years I have tried out for over four seasons.

If you have ever seen me then you know, I’m 5’7, about 115 pounds, and my legs are almost 80 percent of my body. Well my name is Martia’ Holloway, and I’m going to take you on a journey where few I have made it.

If you have ever seen ANTM, then you know exactly how it feels to be a model, and just exactly how hard it is to be on top. Well modeling is nothing really like that at all, it’s more intense and you receive a lot more criticism on the way you look and the way you walk.

In 2004, I went to a model call for a agency in Virginia and they told me that in order to model I must lose 20 more pounds and at that time I was already 110 pounds, so I gave up.
Then in 2005, I did my first hair show, for Isoy Hair Couture, and the show was produced by; Diva Dolls Incorporated, our theme was a tribute to New Orleans. I stepped on the runway palms sweaty and body shaking, then my music queue came on; “show me what got lil mama, show me what you got lil lady, hands up now wave.” And I took off strutting down the runway, looking side to side at everyone in the building; I placed my right hand on my hips then my left hand on my hip. By that moment I was at the end of the runway and struck the meanest pose ever, turned off and strutted back down the runway.

From that moment on you couldn’t tell me nothing, that was until, the summer of 2006 when I tried out for season nine of America’s Next Top model, I had slept outside the venue where tryouts were being held. That morning at about 8a.m I woke up brush my teeth with toothpaste and a water bottle, and got dressed in the car. I stood in line for almost six hours, when my number was finally called. “Hello number 29, step up and please allow our assistant to measure you,” said a representative from UPN.

I was so excited; my heart was racing so fast I could hear it through my chest. “Number 29, is 5’6 ¾, we’re sorry, but you must be at least 5’7.” I didn’t know for sure if I had heard him right, because the room suddenly got quiet and I froze in place, but that didn’t stop the tears and agony I felt hearing those words. That stopped me for a few months, I became very depressed, but I continued to do hair shows and to rip the runway for Isoy Hair Couture.

However after that moment I continued to try out for ANTM, and my last stop was the tryout for 5’6 and under, however since I haven’t gotten a call so, I didn’t make it. But do I give up or keep strutting until someone says, “hey you, you have what it takes to be on top, show me what you got.”

Thursday, September 22, 2011

READ IT, OR LOSE IT!!!!


Today in my writing for New Media class we discussed what it takes to be a “great” writer or what it takes to be great at anything. Truth is though you don’t have to be great anymore, if you are great chances are you’ll make it, but then there’s that slim chance that you will be over looked by the already successful or the person who has the look.  
Don’t take what I’m saying to literal, but for example look at famous singers, most of the females can’t sing live at all, but they have the look so they made it. You want to be a writer, but you have the hardest time getting published and you’re angry because your books are written well, but individuals rather read Kim Kardashians book instead.
That raises the notation, what is being good anymore, because in today’s society you don’t have to be good, or the best you just have to market yourself like hell, make videos on YouTube, and self publish your work.

Has technology made us dumb? Do we rely on facebook and twitter to inform us on “news” worthy information? I think we have, we are all guilty of reading less important content and skimming through significant content.
Though, my friends from home want to support my dream as a writer, I also understand that they probably barely read my blog or scan it, I should just put bits and pieces on twitter at a time since I have over seven hundred followers. Or should I make a note on facebook and tag who I want to read with hopes all three thousand of my friends will be interested. Nope, better yet I’ll make a video blog and just provide the information in a video so you don’t have to read at all.
Bill Cosby said, “If you want to hide something from a nigger put it in a book.” It’s no longer the African American community who doesn’t read, it’s our whole society. It’s extended from younger generations and reached older generations as well. We are reading less and tweeting more. You can Google just about anything and find information, photos, or videos for it. You can buy essays and read books on line so just burn paperbacks.
Regardless, you never want to lose the essence of what made our society an educated people. And, if it’s no longer cool to be educated, call me a lame.  Just because you don’t have to be “great” anymore doesn’t mean you lower your standards as a writer (grammar), musicians (auto-tone), and artist; well art will always be the same you can’t fake a picture.
Save our society, our generation’s young and old, and save your mind. Read something with extensive content, which has meaning, and maybe even provokes you to do something. Children can’t grow up wondering what paperbacks are, because they have a kindle or a device that reads the book to them.

Sparks Notes, thank you because a few times you helped me through high school, however I can’t hold a proper conversation on the true subject matter of the book now.
I’m not judging anyone I’m just expressing my frustrations on what being “good” or being “great” actually is, no I’m hoping you will realize that you have become a slave to modern day technology and forgot to use your brain.

So I will continue to read, write, and blog. And, maybe in a last minute effort to be great I’ll self publish a book. I mean the outlets are out there to do whatever, unless you want to be great, then you’ll use those outlets wisely.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

BasketBall Wives LA

Ok! Since everyone is saying it, it's about time we made it KNOWN! The new Basketball Wives LA sucks... We can only put up with the original Basketball Wives, because we as viewers have grown to love them and their drama and Evelyn with her sayings keeps us entertained.

Oh yeah, and at least their husbands, boyfriends, baby daddys, or ex husbands were known. The LA Wives we don’t know them or who the hell their husbands are. @governorking said, “Basketball Wives LA is the reason we should all read more.” By we, he means African Americans, especially women.

LA #BBW cause their own drama and find ways to beef it's not real at all. It's too scripted, Gloria Govan is the new Shaunie and she’s the leader of the pack, her sister is just on there for publicity, because we know she had sexual relations with Shaq (Shaunie making that money) and she had to bring her sister along. I don’t even know anyone else’s name and haven’t taken them time to learn them either.

Laura Govan said, “She’s been though a lot. She’s just had a baby, moved a crossed country, had a public break up with someone famous, and dated a celebrity.” That is not a hard life girl, shit that’s easy talk to some of the baby mommas I know, or females who really had a hard life.

The "jump-off girl" (Draya Michele )needs to stand up to them and tell them, "they are all groupies because they are all making a living off of their husband's name and living off their basketball money too. So she's no different from them, they either had a ring or have one or not."  

@ZetaNoLyeBeta tweeted, “It’s rather boring, but that Draya girl makes for good entertainment. LOL.”  Good point, the one they hate may be the one to steal the show, maybe she will get promoted to the original #BBW and take Meeka “Liar” Claxton’s place.

Viewers are not feeling these LA wives and they aren't afraid to voice it just look a twitter and facebook. @Dial_Is_Taken thinks, “I thought the last #BBW was ghetto, but the LA ones are terrible, they look terrible, and their behavior is terrible. It’s all bad.”
Shaunie I understand you needed a spin off or some air time while the original #BBWS was off season, but this is not the way to go about it, how about getting a show with women who want to be basketball wives more people would tune into that, matter of fact we would watch anything but #BBWLA!

They are always saying it’s so hard to be a #BBW; shit it’s hard being anybodies wife, girlfriend, or baby momma. All men cheat and females are thirsty and are always out to get someone else’s man. It’s not just famous rich men; a female will go after a fine broke nigga. Keep it real.
Shit, I should be on there since I have a crush on Shannon Brown… 


Closing One Chapter & Opening Another

Graduate School
As I start a new journey in life, it’s only right that as a journalist I close one chapter by writing and open another chapter with insight on what I hope to gain from the voyage this time around. I have a chance to get my Masters, a chance that doesn’t come often and yes the loan money will be a pain paying back, but I’m securing my future.
I can kill two birds with one stone, not literally. Yet, I can go to school and go where the opportunity is as well.  I’ve been waiting for this moment for a while and all though it comes premature; I’m risking it all just to get a shot, one shot. If I learned one thing from undergraduate, I learned that internships are important and that’s my first task.
I want my mom to know she raised a wonderful daughter and my family to know, “our time is coming.” Believe that, our time is defiantly coming, so get ready our lives are about to change.
I will be okay mom, I got faith, I got family, and I got three of the best friends in the world (S.W, J.B, & M.H).  As long as I remember to have faith and pray (something I need to work on) then I shall be fine. I have drive and dreams and that’s enough to push anybody.  I have a plan too.
Just pray for me, encourage me, and believe in me and that’s enough. I will though miss you guys while I’m there, but it’s for a good cause. I will be leaving behind some of the most important people in my life, but that doesn’t mean I don't care about them and love them all the same; be good “Weeza Weeza”, S. LEE thanks for everything you do for me, I <3 you, and M. Rather (Riley) love you BFF…
-Martia’
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